This is NOT you*.
* My apologies to Floyd, Ivan or Jan in case I actually see you on the roads of Napa-in which case it COULD be you.This is just a quick rant I need to get off my chest concerning my fellow cyclists. I am out there pretty much every weekend (thanks to my generous wife and understanding son) on a 30-50 mile ride around the valley. I see a few cyclists here and there and I always make it a point to at least acknowledge and say hello to all I pass.
My gripe?
I don't know why it bugs me so much, but not getting a return hello, wave, head nod or grunt really pisses me off! More times than not, the slight comes from some over-weight (not like I am one to talk, but at least this fat-ass says hello), Postal Service kitted out, Trek OCLV riding cool guy. I guess you could replace the Postal Kit with any of those sweet Primal Wear things too.
It's not like these guys are really flying by or too busy/occupied to return the wave either. So what is it?
I find myself asking this over and over in my head for at least 5 seconds after the incident takes place. One thing that keeps popping into my thoughts is the old "Win-the-Ride" mentality.
When I used to be more involved with group rides, we used to have a saying for some of the local hot-rods-you know the ones-always off the front, usually frantically spinning the gears and bouncing all over the saddle-all in a quest to win a casual group ride. It happened on the road and on the dirt. The champ would always have to reflect on how much further behind you were, and how much faster they could have gone. I always used to think,
"WOW! You're really gonna kill in your next beginner mtb race or CAT IV road race. With such powerful wins on group rides-I am sure there is nothing that stands between you and 15th place other than 14 other people."Well guess what? They won! Uhhh, nothing...
I have so much more respect for folks that I ride with that don't have to tell me how powerful they are and constantly race for the win. I'll always choose to ride with the kind of folks that actually enjoy the ride, help others learn more about being a better, more powerful and competitive cyclist through encouragement and truly show the friendship that cycling has to offer...guys like Kirby, James, Steve-folks that I know can destroy me and pretty much anybody I can think of, but ride for the joy of it...
OK there-it's off my chest...